I love that Ghana is a
very communal country, especially when it comes to food. Ghanaians love to eat!
If someone you know or have met is eating around you they will always use the
key phrase, “You’re Invited”, and allow you to take part in their meal. At home
people can be a bit stingier at times lol. With that being said, I want to tell
everyone about my Ghanaian friend Priscilla.
Priscilla
and I met in my Community Organization class. I sat by her on the first day and
we immediately became friends. She was so sweet and accepted me as her friend
right away. I told that I had a friend in the U.S. also named Priscilla and she
said, “Well then we are already friends”. Ghanaians are also very hospitable
people. Whenever someone is a visitor in their place of residence, they will
always offer anything that they have to give. When I visited Priscilla’s dorm
room for the first time she was sad that my friends and I had taken water with
us because she wanted to offer it to us upon arrival. Instead she gave all of us
fresh pineapple. :-)
At
the end of our visit she invited us over again to cook lunch together, and
yesterday that’s exactly what we did. Unfortunately, I had to miss most of the
preparation because I had class =/, so I’m a little jealous of my friends Brittany
and Baindu for experiencing the fun part. The girls made Kontomere (a local dish very similar to spinach) with
egg and bean stew, boiled plantains, and boiled yam. It was extremely
delicious! When we were all full Priscilla told us that we didn’t eat enough!
Lol. She is such a sweet, wise, and fun person. I know that our friendship will
go beyond my time here in Ghana.
It’s
so great the way food brings people together. Whether it’s for holidays like
Thanksgiving and Christmas or just enjoying a meal with some friends late at
night or on a Saturday afternoon. In Ghana it definitely contributes to the overwhelming sense of community that is embedded into their culture. When someone that offers their food to me I know they have accepted me. I like the phrase so much that I know it will stick with me when I go home. So if you ever see me with some food be prepared to hear the words, “you’re invited!”